Gay Couple Will Be
One of First to Marry
San Gabriel Valley Tribune
By Tony Castro
June 14, 2008For Robin Tyler and Diane Olson, the next
Valentine's Day will come early - Monday evening when they
become one of the first two same-sex couples to legally
marry in California.
"We've waited a long time for this, and it really won't
matter if we're the first or just one of the first," Olson
said. "We're just on cloud nine that we can marry."
The two North Hills women, who have been partners for
15 years, were original plaintiffs in the historic lawsuit
that revolutionized California's nuptial laws when the
state Supreme Court ruled last month that the ban on
same-sex marriages was unconstitutional.
When they exchange vows at 5:01p.m. Monday before a
rabbi in front of the Beverly Hills courthouse, they will
return to where, for the past eight Valentine's Days, they
have attempted to get a marriage license - and each time
have been turned down at the Registrar-Recorder/County
Clerk's Office window.
Acting Los Angeles County Registrar-Recorder/County
Clerk Dean Logan announced Thursday he would issue an
early marriage license to Tyler and Olson "in recognition
of their unique role in the court's decision."
Similar arrangements were made in San Francisco to
allow Mayor Gavin Newsom to officiate at the marriage of
Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon on Monday evening. Martin and
Lyon were the first same-sex couple to marry during the
2004 "Winter of Love" in that city, but this time their
wedding will be legal.
The two ceremonies Advertisement will be among the
thousands expected to take place in California beginning
Tuesday morning when marriage licenses can legally be
issued to same-sex couples.
"Our marriage-equality lawsuit became the Trojan Horse,
an exquisite wedding gift to all of us, in which all of
our other legal rights rode to victory in the state of
California," said Tyler, 66, who owns a travel business
with Olson and is a longtime gay-rights activist.
Olson, 54, who also owns a small business of her own in
Beverly Hills, is the granddaughter of Culbert Levy Olson,
governor of California from 1938 to 1942.
Tyler and Olson's marriage, a Jewish wedding, will be
officiated by Rabbi Denise Eger of Kol Ami Synagogue in
West Hollywood.
Their roles as pioneers in the issue have only recently
become widely credited by activists and the news media,
which often had focused on San Francisco, where Newsom
began marrying gay couples until the courts stopped him.
But Tyler and Olson, along with two other Los Angeles
co-defendants, filed the first lawsuit challenging the
state's marital law through high-powered attorney Gloria
Allred.
Last week, as they were making arrangements for their
historic wedding, they recalled that their original 2004
lawsuit made negative waves even within the gay and
lesbian communities.
"The truth is we started this lawsuit against everybody
telling us we would lose," said Tyler, who also blogs for
The Huffington Post. "But a lot of the people who shunned
us for filing this lawsuit are the same ones who are now
getting a lot of credit."
Last month's Supreme Court decision has opened the way
to a political showdown in the November general election
in which California voters ultimately could decide the
fate of same-sex marriage by voting on a ballot measure
amending the state constitution to outlaw gay nuptials.
Attempts by opponents of same-sex marriage to stop the
issuance of licenses to gay couples until the Legislature
has the opportunity to change the laws have all been
denied by the courts.
Gay couples are projected to spend $684million on
flowers, cakes, hotels, photographers and other wedding
services over the next three years - so long as the ballot
measure banning same-sex marriage isn't approved,
according to a study by the Williams Institute at the UCLA
School of Law.
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