Gay Days in Sunny California
Edmonton Sun
By Lyn Cockburn
June 20, 2008They'd been living in sin for 50 years, so it was high
time they got hitched. And on June 16, they made honest women of each
other.
Del Martin, 87, and Phyllis Lyon , 84, were married by San Francisco
Mayor Gavin Newsom after the California Supreme Court struck down the
state's ban on same-sex marriage.
The court ruled that sexual orientation, like race or gender, "does not
constitute a legitimate basis upon which to deny or withhold legal
rights."
It was Martin and Lyon's second marriage - to each other. And note that
they wore the same pastel pantsuits in 2008 as they had four years before.
They were first pronounced Mrs. and Mrs. in 2004 when Newsom issued 4,000
marriage licences - later invalidated by the Supreme Court.
Reports say the pants had to be taken up a bit for last Monday's
marriage, as the two had lost a little height due to aging, and Martin
sometimes needs the aid of a wheelchair.
Of course, since Martin and Lyon are a lesbian couple, there are those
who say they are still living in sin. But never mind. Last Saturday, they
celebrated their 51st anniversary together.
As of last weekend, some 650 gay couples had booked appointments to get
marriage licences at city hall and one estimate states that at least half
of California's 100,000 same-sex couples will get married over the next
three years.
In addition, some 68,000 out-of-state couples will travel to
California, since it now has no restrictions on non-residents marrying.
The change in the law did not validate the 4,000 marriages that took place
in 2004.
Another notable couple eager to tie the knot are George Takei, 71, who
played Sulu on Star Trek, and Brad Altman, 54, his partner of 21 years. In
fact, they were the first couple to hand over $70 for a marriage licence
in West Hollywood.
"May equality live long and prosper," said Takei, grinning happily.
SUMMER OF LOVE
And it is expected that California will indeed prosper from the influx
of same-sex couples seeking to marry. Research done by the Williams
Institute estimates the economic proceeds of the "summer of love" at $684
million, a figure which includes $64 million in tax revenue for a state in
financial difficulty.
Since there will be a public vote on the issue in November, this
economic windfall may not last.
And, of course, not everyone was smiling as couples lined up for
marriage licences.
Those opposed to gay marriage paraded their signs reading "Jesus said
go and sin no more" outside San Francisco's City Hall.
And, as usual, there was the ubiquitous "God hates fags" placard. Yes,
the same sentiment was expressed outside Heath Ledger's apartment in New
York after his death. Ledger evidently did not even have to be gay to
incur God's wrath. All he had to do was play a gay man in Brokeback
Mountain.
But Jon Stewart summed up the "God hates fags" sentiment quite nicely
on his show the other night.
Looking innocently into the camera, Stewart asked: "Well, OK, if that's
so, how come He's picking on all those nice people in the midwest with all
the flooding?"
It is a question that just might make the Almighty smile a little. |