Gay 'Shotgun
Weddings' Beat Proposed California Ban
Bloomberg
By William Selway
June 16, 2008Joshua Rymer says he's having a shotgun
wedding, though no children are on the way.
He plans to marry Timothy Frazer before Nov. 2, when
Californians will vote on a constitutional amendment to
ban same- sex marriages. The measure would overturn a
state Supreme Court decision that today makes California
the second U.S. state to allow homosexual couples to wed.
"We want to make sure we take advantage of it before
there is any possibility that privilege or right is taken
away,'' said Rymer, 51, chief executive officer of
Terradatum Inc., a real- estate software company in Glen
Ellen, California.
California officials are bracing for a wave of nuptials
from couples taking advantage of the ruling, which became
effective at 5:01 p.m. local time today.
San Francisco married one couple this evening, Phyllis
Lyon and Del Martin, who had been plaintiffs in the
lawsuit that led to the Supreme Court decision. Hundreds
of supporters cheered and waved as Lyon and Martin emerged
from Mayor Gavin Newsom's office. Outside City Hall, a
marching band was playing and at least 1,000 more people
gathered to support the couple. About a dozen protesters
picketed, carrying signs with religious themes and
anti-homosexual messages.
Los Angeles County this evening married Robin Tyler and
Diane Olson, who sued after their request to wed in 2004
was denied.
Extended Hours
Sonoma, Alameda and Yolo counties extended their hours
so they could issue licenses tonight. The rest of the
state will start tomorrow.
"We're preparing for several hundred couples on
Tuesday, possibly up to the thousands,'' said Dean Logan,
the Los Angeles County Clerk.
Advocates of amending the state constitution say the
California Supreme Court ignored the will of the 61
percent of voters who in 2000 approved a measure to limit
marriage to same- sex couples.
"This is a chance for the people to get the issue
straight,'' said Brian Raum, an attorney with the Alliance
Defense Fund, a legal adviser for the campaign to pass the
constitutional change. "The government should be in the
business of promoting traditional marriage between one man
and one woman, which is the optimal setting for raising
kids.''
Court Battle
San Francisco triggered the court battle in 2004 when
it became the first municipality in the nation to allow
same-sex couples to marry. Massachusetts followed in 2005
after a ruling by that state's top court. California has
about 92,000 same-sex couples living together, more per
capita than any other state, according to U.S. Census
Bureau figures.
Gay partners from 46 other states went to San Francisco
when ceremonies began four years ago. Almost 4,000 couples
were married during the four weeks before the state court
halted the practice while it considered a lawsuit
challenging it.
Paula Bocciardi plans to get her wedding license
tomorrow. Bocciardi, an analyst with the Administrative
Office of the Courts in San Francisco, said she was first
in line to make a license appointment on May 15, the day
the Supreme Court decision was announced.
"Having that piece of paper and making that commitment
official means that my relationship is even more -- kind
of sacred -- in my own eyes,'' said Bocciardi, 52, who
lives in San Francisco. "So I guess I am not any different
than any other bride.''
$684 Million
Residents, out-of-state couples and guests may spend
$684 million over the next three years because of same-sex
weddings, according to a study by Brad Sears and M.V. Lee
Badgett, researchers at the Williams Institute at the
University of California, Los Angeles.
San Francisco has encouraged couples to come to town to
get married. It has 8,900 same-sex couples living
together, more per- capita than any other city in the
U.S., according to the Census Bureau.
Charles Kimball, a waiter in St. Helena, California, is
offering to arrange weddings for a fee at gay-friendly
venues in the wine country north of San Francisco.
Michelle Wharton, 36, and Ricci Preffer, 39, are coming
from the Hawaiian island of Maui to pick up their marriage
license in San Francisco. Preffer, who is due to give
birth to a son in September, said she hopes it will help
as she seeks to have Michelle legally adopt the child,
even though Hawaii won't recognize it.
"Every little bit that we can add to show our intention
will protect our family,'' she said.
Legal Rights
While gay couples enjoy many of the same legal rights
as heterosexual couples under California's
domestic-partner law, the Supreme Court said not allowing
them to marry violated their constitutional rights.
Jeanne Rizzo, 61, and Pali Cooper, 52, said their
relationship was deprived of legitimacy when they were
denied the right to marry. The Tiburon, California, couple
has lived together since 1989, and Cooper helped raise
Rizzo's son, Christopher. They plan to marry the last week
of August.
"Having this relationship legally recognized was more
important than I realized,'' Cooper said.
A poll released last month by the Field Research Corp.
in San Francisco found that 51 percent of registered
voters favored allowing gays and lesbians to marry,
putting supporters in a majority for the first time.
California Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger, a Republican,
is against the constitutional amendment to ban such
unions.
Rizzo said she hopes that once people get used to gay
marriages, they'll see no need to outlaw them.
"Nothing bad happens,'' she said. "I think it'll be
determined that this is a good thing. What'll happen is
the opposition will just fade.''
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