Marriage Digest: Lesbian Couples Make Up Large Majority of
Calif. 'Gay Marriages'
Baptist Press
By Michael Foust
June 26, 2008SACRAMENTO, Calif. (BP)--California's "gay
marriages" appear to be following trends in other states, where
lesbian couples are far more likely than homosexual men to
legalize their relationships.
The Sacramento Bee reported that a sampling of marriage
licenses in Sacramento County showed 60 percent were obtained by
lesbian couples, 40 percent by male couples. Elsewhere, in Yolo
County, lesbian couples made up 65 percent of all marriage
licenses. Because the marriage certificates no longer list the
couple's sex -- instead of "bride" and "groom" the forms say
"Party A" and "Party B" -- the newspaper was forced to go by
first names to determine the makeup of the couple. In about a
dozen cases in Sacramento County (for instance, "Dusty and Robye"),
that was impossible, the newspaper said.
In Massachusetts, which has recognized "gay marriage" since
2004, nearly two-thirds of all "weddings" have involved
lesbians. Similarly, in New Jersey, 60 percent of all same-sex
civil unions have involved women.
"Women want to be married more than men do," Gary Gates, a
demographer at UCLA, told the newspaper in the June 20 story.
"The idea of partnering is more attractive to women."
That no doubt is true, but conservative experts say it points
to something just as significant: promiscuity among the male
homosexual population.
A three-year study by University of Chicago researchers
released in 2004 showed that 42.9 percent of homosexual men in
Chicago's Shoreland area had more than 60 sexual partners, while
an additional 18.4 percent had between 31 and 60 partners. All
total, 61.3 percent of the area's homosexual men had more than
30 partners, and 87.8 percent had more than 15, the research
found.
Such behavior has consequences: Nationwide in 2006,
government data showed that 66 percent of new HIV infections
were attributed to homosexual men, even though they make up only
about 2 percent of the population.
Meanwhile, The New York Times reported that some male couples
"married" in Massachusetts have turned the traditional idea of
marriage on its head. One couple, Eric Erbelding and Michael
Peck, both 44, have no problem with each other having sex with
other men. One lives in Pittsburgh and the other in Boston and
they see one another every other weekend, The Times said.
"Our rule is you can play around because, you know, you have
to be practical," Erbelding said.
"I think men view sex very differently than women," he said.
"Men are pigs, they know that each other are pigs, so they can
operate accordingly. It doesn't mean anything."
But Erbelding told the newspaper that most of the homosexual
couples he knows are "for the most part monogamous, but for
maybe a casual three-way."
SUIT SEEKS TO STRIKE CALIF. AMEND. -- The American Civil
Liberties Union joined three major homosexual activist
organizations June 20 in asking the California Supreme Court to
prevent a proposed constitutional marriage amendment from
appearing on the ballot. The amendment, if approved, would
reverse the court's decision that legalized "gay marriage."
The lawsuit argues that the amendment would "revise" the
state constitution -- something that is prohibited from being
done under state law by a voter initiative. ("Revision"
essentially refers to a fundamental change to the document.)
Revising the constitution requires approval by two-thirds of the
legislature before an initiative appears on the ballot. Lambda
Legal, Equality California and the National Center for Lesbian
Rights also are taking part in the suit.
"If enacted, [the amendment] would eviscerate the principle
of equal citizenship for gay and lesbian people and strip the
courts of their authority to enforce basic constitutional
guarantees," Stephen Bomse, a lawyer in the suit, said,
according to the San Francisco Chronicle.
Legal experts are calling the suit a long-shot, the Los
Angeles Times said. State courts typically don't halt
initiatives after they have already qualified for the ballot.
Attorney Glen Lavy of the Alliance Defense Fund, which is
supporting the amendment, said Equality California and the other
groups "are desperate to evade democracy."
"First, they used the courts to erase the votes of nearly 5
million Californians who voted to protect marriage," he said in
a statement, alluding to a 2000 referendum the court
invalidated. "Now, they are trying to silence the people's voice
forever. This is just another attempt to force a radical
political agenda upon the people of California. The opponents of
marriage are willing to use any means necessary to impose their
will."
Amendment supporters submitted 1.1 million signatures to
qualify the amendment for the ballot. For information about the
amendment, or to donate to the amendment campaign, visit
ProtectMarriage.com (out-of-state donations are allowed).
Michael Foust is an assistant editor of Baptist Press. |